This next week will be full of love in our house. Partly because I’ve just started back at work and because we need to prioritize eachother more and also because I miss my hubby and want to do something special for him!
Maybe I can inspire you to do the same for your special someone?
A week full of LOVE
Give your husband a nice relaxing massage. Try to avoid having the television or smartphone on and instead devote your entire attention to him. Light some candles for an intimite mood and maybe some inscents to help him relax. Make it extra special by asking him about his day and really listen!
Try to spend some time today to think about all the wonderful things your hubby does for you, that you (most likely) take for granted, and be sure and tell him thanks today – because it’s always nice to be validated and appreciated.
Bake (or buy) a special treat for your hubby. Bake his favorite cake or make his favorite meal. Something edible to tell him, I like to spoil you and take care of you. My mother often jokes that a mans heart is reached through his stomach. Of course it isn’t entirely true, but everyone loves to be spoiled and when someone you love makes you feel special.
Touch is great way to communicate desire and of course you want your hubby to feel wanted.
Today you are going to do an activity together – you don’t have to go out, but you have to do something together (no TV or going to the movies!) You have to interact with eachother.
Take a walk in the woods, go shopping for a nice home cooked meal, put on some music and dance together. It doesn’t have to take all day – but the idea is to spend time together on an activity.
Plan a surprise for today! If it’s possible, arrange for the children to be somewhere else, so he can sleep in. Make him a nice breakfast (maybe in bed *wink-wink*) and let him spend all day on the couch in comfortable pants and watch his favorite movies (DieHard 1-5 or something similar) and spoil him rotten with candy, junkfood and great company! Just let him do nothing!
Today you are going to whisper sweet words to him. Tell him how wonderful he is; How much you love his body; What you love about him! Build up his confidence, so he knows for sure that he is your one true love! If for some reason you can’t be with him all day, make sure to send loving text messages to him, so he knows that he is on your mind!
It probably sounds a bit silly and it seems like it’s a lot of effort, but seriously what is one week out of a lifetime?!? Try some of the ideas or all of them and I am sure you will feel more connected to your husband and he to you.
What is your tip to making your hubby feel loved and appreciated?